The Knitting Experience is sponsoring a new charity knit program. Since we opened, we have been collecting chemo caps for local chemotherapy patients. We will still be collecting and distributing the caps, but we are adding a new project - knitting knockers!
Ok - there is a story that goes along with this one.
As many of you know, The Knitting Experience itself, was born out of my personal experience with breast cancer. I was diagnosed over 4 years ago and had a mastectomy on my right breast. This past September, Mary Ellen presented me with the most thoughtful and joyful gift - a knitted boob! The pattern is free and available on knitty.
Well, October came and I made a decision. It was time. Time to have the other breast removed and start reconstruction. Because of my age and genetics, my chances of developing cancer in my remaining breast are high. By having a prophylactic mastectomy, I greatly reduce my risk. It took me a long time to be physically and emotionally ready to take this step, but now that the decision has been made, I am greatly relieved and a little excited.
I made an appointment to speak with the breast surgeon and the head of the Breast Health Center at MidCoast Hospital, Kim, sat in on the appointment. While we were discussing all my options, I asked them if they wanted to see my knitted boob.
My knitted boob.
They loved it. Kim instantly asked if I thought the local knitters would make some for the patients at MidCoast. Of course!
I took the idea back to the Knit at Night crowd and the response has been overwhelming. Not only does everyone want to make a boob, they are telling their friends, who are telling their friends. We have a movement here!
Consider joining us. Why? Because knitting a boob is fun. It is a great conversation starter. And because it means so much to women who desperately need a little giggle. You might ask, why a knitted boob? Don’t they have silicone ones you can get at medical supply stores? Yes. They do. I have one. But I couldn’t get one right away. You can’t be fitted for a traditional breast prosthesis until you have been out of surgery for at least three weeks.
So, what are you supposed to do if you want to go to the store? Go for ice cream with your kids? Feel normal for a moment despite the fact that the big “C” is now part of your life? You can try to stuff a sock in your bra. That’s what I did, and let me tell you, it does not look anything like a breast. I felt horrible. I cried. I put on a BIG, BAGGY shirt and went out sorta hunched over so no one could see my chest.
I realize that most people weren’t looking at my chest. And maybe they wouldn’t have noticed the lumpy nature of the sock. But I noticed.
After three weeks of recovery, I was scheduled to return to work. Here I was, 28, 2 months pregnant, just had a mastectomy, and had to go back to work without a proper prosthesis. I called the fitting store and begged, pleaded, and even cried, in an attempt to convince them to fit me for my falsie early. Luckily they did.
But, if I had had a knitted boob right after my surgery, all that wouldn’t have happened. Yes, I would still have cancer. I would still have lost a breast. But, at least I could have gone out into the world feeling normal.
Today I wear the knitted boob most of the time. It is more comfortable than the silicone prosthesis and actually breathes. With the silicone one, I would get a heat rash on my chest during the summer or when the hot flashes get particularly active.
So... please consider knitting a knocker to help another woman with breast cancer feel a little more normal, and perhaps giggle each morning as she slips a bright red or orange or green - maybe stripes! - boob into her bra.
Women and breasts come in all sizes, so we need all sizes. Knit whatever strikes your fancy. Knit your size. Knit your sister’s size. Just knit.
When choosing a yarn, look for dk or sport weight. You want something that is soft, lightweight, and that breathes. Mine is done out of Cascade’s pima tencel a cotton/tencel blend. Many are making their boobs out of Debbie Bliss’s baby cashmerino. Bamboo is another good choice. Avoid pure wool. Check your stash, ask your friends to swap yarn, have fun and be creative!!
We will have poly-fill available at the shop for stuffing the breasts, so don’t seam them all the way up. If you have poly-fill at home, still leave a small opening so they can adjust the size by adding or removing filling at the hospital. (Mary Ellen was overly optimistic about my size and we had to remove a bit of stuffing.) (Keep track of what size you knit so we can tag each one.)
Mark your calendars for Sunday, February 11th for our big kickoff to the Knitting Knockers. We will be having a free workshop on getting started on your knitted boobs. This is to help all those who haven’t tried double points yet. Becka and I will be here from 12-4pm helping anyone who comes to knit a boob.
Feel free to email or call the shop if you have questions. We will post updates and helpful tips on the blog.
AND... THANK YOU!!!!